Get Out Of Your Own Way To Sell More – Welcome back to another electrifying edition of 2-Minute Tuesday!
Today, we’re diving deep into a challenge that plagues even the most seasoned sales professionals: getting out of your own way and letting the buyer buy.

Get Out Of Your Own Way To Sell More

Have you ever felt like you were your own worst obstacle in closing a sale? Or perhaps you’ve found yourself bombarding potential clients with information before they even had a chance to ask a question? If so, you’re not alone. In this brief but impactful segment, we’ll explore why it’s crucial to step aside and let the buyer take the lead in the sales process. So, fasten your seatbelts; it’s time to supercharge your selling skills!

The Art of Not Overcomplicating:

One common pitfall in sales is overcomplicating the process. You’ve put in the hard work to get that potential buyer in front of you, whether it’s a virtual Zoom meeting or a face-to-face conversation. They’re interested, and you’ve done an excellent job explaining your offering and its benefits. Now, what do you do? The answer is simple: let them buy! It’s vital to recognize that sometimes, less is more. You’ve already laid the groundwork; now, it’s time to allow the buyer to make their decision.

The Power of Limiting Beliefs:

Limiting beliefs are those nagging thoughts that whisper doubts into our ears. You might catch yourself thinking, “Should I offer a discount?” or “Maybe they need more time to think.” These thoughts, while well-intentioned, can hinder your sales process. Instead of projecting your concerns onto the buyer, trust in the value of your product or service and have confidence in your sales pitch. Remember, you’ve brought them this far for a reason, so don’t undercut yourself by assuming they’re not ready.

Silence Is Golden:

Here’s a golden rule in sales: after making your offer, be quiet. Silence can be a powerful tool. Give the buyer the space to process their thoughts and make a decision. If they have questions or objections, they’ll raise them. If not, your silence sends a clear message: you’re confident in your offer, and you’re ready to move forward when they are. It’s a subtle yet effective way to let the buyer take the lead.

The Danger of ‘Fire-hosing’ Your Prospect:

One of the most common missteps in sales is what we call “fire-hosing.” This is when you flood the buyer with information, objections, or additional details before they’ve even had a chance to express interest or concern. It’s like answering questions they haven’t asked. Instead of being helpful, it can overwhelm and confuse the buyer. So, take a step back, hold off on the extra information, and let the buyer guide the conversation.

The Role of Buying Cues:

Many buyers are waiting for your cues to make the purchase. They want you to ask them to buy. They want you to provide the ‘buying cues’ they’re looking for. It’s a subtle shift in perspective: you’re not just selling; you’re facilitating the buying process. Recognize that you hold a position of influence, and by giving those cues, you empower the buyer to take action.


In the world of sales, it’s not just about selling; it’s about guiding the buyer to make the right decision. Getting out of your own way is the key to achieving this. Trust in your value, be comfortable with silence and resist the urge to overcomplicate. Let the buyer buy. Remember, many buyers are eagerly waiting for your guidance. So, next time you’re in a sales conversation, take a deep breath, get out of your own way, and watch your sales soar to new heights! Thanks for joining us on this enlightening 2-Minute Tuesday. Stay tuned for more actionable insights to supercharge your sales game.